Etiquette in Oman

I've had a lot of questions about what the culture is like in Oman, so I did a little research on social etiquette.

Oman is a traditional Muslim country, whose hospitality and warmth of nature is remarked upon by all who visit. The Omani people are friendly, and although Arabic is their main language, English is spoken frequently and is often used as the language of choice. As in most Middle East countries, religion is the center of the culture. It dictates everything: dress, hygiene, diet, everything. The approach to life is "Inshallah", which literally means "Allah willing". 

Despite their relaxed air, the Omanis are quite conservative people and respect for their privacy and, in particular, their religion, should always be observed. This generally means (for men and women alike) that no bare legs or shoulders should be visible. Women should wear loose, long garments, ensuring that their shoulders and knees are covered. Men should wear long trousers and tops with sleeves. (I'll describe the clothing in greater detail in another post.) Women should cover their heads before entering a mosque and all should remove shoes.

There are also specific social and religious rules that govern contact between the sexes. Although men and women may interact in public, their contact should always be chaperoned or in the open. Even educated elite women often find it necessary to be chaperoned by a male relative at public events, parties, or receptions. Public hand-holding etc and kissing are frowned upon and it is respectful to observe this taboo.

Omanis tend to stand close to one another as Arabs do, and it is common for friends and relatives of the same sex to hold hands. Two or more men or women entering a doorway at the same time always try to persuade the others to enter first, although a man always invites a woman to enter first.

A very important part of Omani culture is hospitality. If invited into an Omani house, a visitor is likely to be greeted with a bowl of dates, kahwa (coffee withcardamom - standard Arabic قهوة) and fruit.  The coffee is served fairly weak in a small cup, which should be shaken after three servings to show that you have finished. The dates are in lieu of sugar. Halwa and other sweets are often given at celebrations such as Eids.

Alcohol is available only in select restaurants and large hotels and is usually very expensive. Only tourists are allowed to drink alcohol. Drinking is illegal for all Omani citizens. Drinking alcohol in public is strictly prohibited.

Staring is quite common in Oman; children, men and women are likely to stare at you simply for being a foreigner, especially if you travel off-season and in out-of-the-way places. This is not meant as an insult, it rather shows an interest, and a friendly smile will leave the kids giggling and showing off, and the adults happily trying out their few English phrases.

~ Lala